A California Adventure


Friends, yogis, beautiful ones: I'm back from my camping adventure! My friend Yoel and I had an amazing time in Stanislaus National Forest and Yosemite.



We spent the days relaxing, hiking, eating picnic lunches, building campfires, making smores, telling stories, and just generally enjoying the beautiful California landscape. We also spent a few days in San Francisco exploring and riding bikes.

I did a little yoga out in nature, too :) I will definitely post some of those photos soon!



I feel refreshed and grateful to be back home.




How have you guys been? XO!

Gone Campin'

Photos via Pinterest.

Hey yogis! I am headed to Stanislaus National Forest for a few days of camping, hiking and relaxation.

I'll be taking a little blogging break while I'm off the grid.



No cell phones, no traffic, no computer screens. Only the smell of the trees, the quiet of the wind, the beauty of the landscape, the twinkling of stars overhead.

And of course: late night card games, beer drinking and smores in the campfire!


See you soon, and have a beautiful week.

The Path Before You Is Clear

Photo via Pinterest.

Today I vibrate the mantra om namah shivaya. Some have translated the words to mean I acknowledge my highest self and all the ways I may become.

To me, the mantra means this path is clear; I am free to walk it.

Photo via Hindu Wallpaper.

Om namah shivaya is an incantation to Shiva, a clearer of obstacles, the Hindu lord of meditation and the conqueror of death and destruction. 

By bringing this mantra into meditation, we acknowledge the guru within, the part of ourselves that is wise and powerful.

Photo via FYeahYoga.

May the path before you be open, and may you navigate it with grace and purpose. Namaste.

Super Bendy Backbends

Photo via Yogurt Yoga

Lately I've been inspired by photos like these, where yogis are doing crazy awesome backbends. Have you ever been able to do a super bendy backbend?

Do you have any advice on getting from Full Wheel to here?

I'm still definitely working on the basic iteration of the pose.

Photo by Cara Brostrom.

But someday I'd like to get there!

Photo via Yogurt Yoga

I imagine next steps would be to practice backbending daily, try some wall walks, and begin walking the palms near the heels and playing with that.

Do you have any tips?

Check Out Who's On Elephant Journal

Photo by Cara Brostrom.


Last summer, I had the pleasure of doing a yoga photo shoot in Boston with the talented Cara Brostrom.

I was thrilled to find out her love letter to Boston, a series of words and photographs dedicated to the city, was just featured on Elephant Journal.

And, if you take a look, my yoga postures show up twice in the article. I am so honored to be a part of the piece! I hope you guys check it out.


Photo by Cara Brostrom.


Cara, your compassion really shines through in the post. Thank you for sharing your love for Boston and for so graciously telling a beautiful story of the city.

For more info on Cara or to book a yoga session with her, see her website.

Namaste.

Working on Headstand and Forearm Balance

It's been a while since I regularly practiced headstand and forearm balance and I have to say, I greatly miss Dharma Yoga Evanston, where those two postures were a constant part of class!

Fortunately, though, I have the learned the foundational information needed to get in and out of the postures safely on my own, and I am adding them back into my routine. 

Today I wanted to share a little advice for those of you practicing these postures, or thinking about learning them.

Tip #1: 

In the beginning, practice with a teacher.

It's very important to learn the right way when it comes to inversions, so that you're safe and so you set up good habits. You want to be sure to avoid shoulder and neck strain. Listen carefully and watch your teacher, thinking to yourself, "That is me." Envision yourself in the pose before you are even in it.

Tip #2: Learn how to fall.

The scariest part about inversions is the thought of falling on your head, right? Well, you take that fear away if you practice what it feels like to fall. Remember to tuck your head (chin to chest) and you will protect your neck and spine. Again, this is a great thing to do early on with an instructor present. Once you've pushed through the point of balancing in the pose several times, forcing yourself to fall, you begin to learn where your edge is.

Tip #3: Use the wall conscientiously.

When I first learned headstand, I practiced it a lot at home in front of the wall. Then, when I tried it in class, I immediately felt myself tipping forward, to that place where the wall used to be. For a brief moment I had no idea how to stop myself from falling -- so I did. I hadn't yet learned the way you must fire up all of your back muscles and glutes in order to prevent yourself from tipping forward.

While I think utilizing a wall to learn headstand and forearm balance early on is great, it's also important not to let it become a crutch. As soon as you feel remotely comfortable with the pose, move away from the wall. Challenge yourself to trust your body. And if you're in a class with a bunch of other yogis, allow the energy in the room to inspire you.

Photo via 

Yogurt Yoga

Tip #4: Practice awareness of your mind as you try these poses.

Inversions tend to ignite fear in us. 

Eventually you will need to use your own resolve to face the fear, and to ignore the flight-or-fight response your nervous system may produce. 

As long as you take the right steps to learn the right way into and out of the posture, know that you are safe. Trust in what your teacher has shown you, and trust that your body is capable of incredible things. Learn to let go of your resistance to the postures themselves.

You know you are moving in the right direction when you don't feel your heart drop at the mention of the pose in class. Instead of slowly making your way into the pose, you set a positive example for your fellow yogis, and you launch happily into trying. As long as you are trying, you are achieving what the pose is meant to do.

Tip #5: Learn to play.

These two postures, Sirsasana and Pinchamayurasana, are poses that can take months or even years to realize. Instead of focusing on a specific outcome of your efforts, embrace where you are in that process right here, today.

Are you simply building strength in your shoulders? Are you experimenting with how much effort it takes to kick your legs up the wall? Are you observing the other yogis in class, noting something new about the pose that you've never seen before?

Wherever you are, you are perfect. You are right where you're meant to be.

5 Ways to Build Confidence for Headstand and Forearm Stand

Headstand (Sirsasana) and Forearm Stand (Pincha Mayurasana) can feel intimidating at first, but with the right approach, they become empowering and joyful. Here are five ways to build strength, stability, and confidence for these inversions:

1. Strengthen Your Foundation

The key to inversions is a strong and stable foundation. Focus on building strength in your shoulders, arms, and core to support your weight.

  • For Headstand: Practice Dolphin Pose and Forearm Plank to strengthen your shoulders and arms.

  • For Forearm Stand: Add Push-Ups and Shoulder Taps to your routine to build stability.

Tip: Revisit these foundational poses consistently—they’re the building blocks of your practice.

2. Use the Wall

Practicing with a wall is a game-changer when working toward inversions. The wall provides a safety net while you refine your alignment and balance.

  • For Headstand: Start by lifting your legs one at a time and resting your feet on the wall for support.

  • For Forearm Stand: Kick up gently and let the wall catch your feet, giving you time to engage your core and shoulders.

Tip: As you gain confidence, work on pulling your feet slightly away from the wall for short holds.

3. Practice Core-Strengthening Poses

A strong core is essential for controlling your entry into inversions and holding them steady.

  • Plank Variations: Forearm Plank and Side Plank help build deep core strength.

  • Boat Pose: Strengthens the lower and upper core muscles.

  • Leg Lifts: Improves the control needed to lift your legs into inversions without kicking.

Tip: Consistent core work will help you feel more stable and in control when upside down.

4. Learn to Fall Safely

Fear of falling is one of the biggest barriers to inversions. By learning how to fall safely, you’ll eliminate this fear and approach the poses with more confidence.

  • For Headstand: Practice tucking your chin and rolling forward gently if you lose balance.

  • For Forearm Stand: Use a wall or soft surface to practice controlled dismounts.

Tip: Falling is part of the process. Treat it as a learning experience rather than a setback.

5. Focus on Your Breath and Mindset

Confidence in inversions isn’t just about physical strength—it’s also about staying calm and focused.

  • Use Breathwork: Steady, deep breathing keeps you grounded and helps you stay present.

  • Set an Intention: Approach your practice with curiosity and playfulness instead of self-criticism.

  • Visualize Success: Picture yourself holding the pose with ease and balance.

Tip: Remember, progress takes time. Celebrate small victories along the way.

The Journey to Confidence

Building confidence for Headstand and Forearm Stand is about consistent practice, patience, and trust in your body. With these five steps, you’ll create a strong foundation and a fearless mindset that makes inversions feel achievable and exciting.

So, roll out your mat, breathe deeply, and enjoy the process—you’ve got this! ✨🧘‍♀️

Yoga is Simple (A Video Post)


Weekend Flow from KC and Sara on Vimeo.

I love the way this video shows off the beauty of simple moments in yoga. 

The ease with which you roll out a mat. The careful, slow stretches that start your practice, following the breath. 

The small steps used to readjust alignment in Downward Dog.

The way the fingers grasp in gyan mudra, an effortless touch. The way the eyes look back as you arch into cobra pose. The way the toes flex at the height of Bird of Paradise or in an arm balance.

The upturning of a hand in savasana. The outward breath. The letting go.

Learning to Play Guitar

Photo by me. All photos below via Pinterest.

Yogis, I'm learning to play the guitar! It's exciting, fun, and a great form of meditation. Plus it's been awesome hanging out with my dad, who's showing me the ropes.

Currently I'm just working on scales, basic chords, and the beginnings of a few songs, but I'm already loving it. Just the thought of someday being able to sit outside and jam, singing my favorite songs and getting lost in the music... definitely gives me the inspiration to keep improving my skills.


Most of the time, playing makes me feel like this:


Very calm, meditative, relaxed, reflective.

I'm a huge fan of slow, soulful acoustic songs, so it makes sense that playing them would be a soothing endeavor.


But then there is that little part of me that feels like this:


Like a total badass who can rock out and be crazy and connect with my true inner self, limitless and free. Maybe that Self will be the one that plays electric guitar...

And yes, in case you didn't know, Jimi Hendrix played guitar with his TEETH. I'm definitely not at that skill level yet, but I'm working on it! :)

Do you guys play guitar, or other instruments? Do you know of good resources online for guitar newbies like me? Leave me a comment if you know of any I shouldn't miss! XO

Yoga Slackers

Photo by Tom Grundy via Facebook.

Have you guys heard of Yoga Slackers?

They're this awesome group of yogis and yoginis who balance on each other, walk slacklines and do yoga while poised on top of them, and travel the world teaching workshops.

Above photo via YogaSlackers. Below photo by Tom Grundy.

As they say on their website, Slackline yoga (or slackasana) has been described as "distilling the art of yogic concentration." To balance on a 1-inch piece of webbing lightly tensioned between two trees is not easy, and doing yoga poses on it is even more challenging. Yet despite the seemingly impossible nature of the act, it is achievable by almost anyone with a little bit of perseverance and patience.

AcroYoga, on the other hand, is a partner yoga which blends the spiritual wisdom of yoga, the loving kindness of Thai massage, and the dynamic power of Acrobatics. These three ancient lineages form the foundation of a unique new practice that cultivates trust, connection and playfulness.

Above photo via Yoga Slackers NorCalBelow photo by Tom Grundy.

I find this group incredibly inspiring. Even just checking out their photos brings a smile to my face. Their videos on YouTube show off their incredible balancing, flexibility and awareness practices.

Yoga Slackers truly live up to their standard of extreme living with awareness, and what's more, these teachers seem to do so with an attitude of positive energy no matter what they're doing.

Below photo by Tom Grundy.

Have you ever done acroyoga or slackline yoga? I'd love to hear!

Tune In (A Reflective Meditation)

Photo via FYeahYoga.

Today, I challenge you to pause to take deep breaths. Tune in to the part of you that has all the answers.

Create something. Allow for imperfection. Return to your innate sense of higher Self. 

Photo via FYeahYoga.


Make a mess. Try and try again. If you're feeling stuck and lonely, draw a picture. Play. Cook a new recipe. Add some novelty to your life.

If you hold the belief that there is some higher power at work, you can transcend the common. You can become a healer, an inspiration. You can even be in great sorrow, in great grief, and you can still have a spiritual moment.

Photo via Yogic Photos.

Yoga for Boston

Photo by Cara Brostrom.
 

This weekend I am dedicating my yoga practice to Boston. I've only visited the city once, last summer, and I absolutely loved it. My heart goes out to all of those who have been affected by the tragic events this week.

My intention is that every effort I make on the mat would go toward your benefit.

To all those suffering, may you find peace.



To all those who have experienced grief and loss, may you be uplifted by those around you.

May there be healing, renewal and courage for all who have been affected by the violence.




Even in great despair, we have a chance to love each other and support each other. May we stand strong together and remember who we are as humans, deep down. 

A heartfelt namaste.

Photo by Cara Brostrom.

Feeling Wanderlust-y

Photo via Tyler Branch.

Lately I'm craving an adventure. A long drive to somewhere new.

A chance to get out of town and enjoy nature. To travel into the mountains or forests. To be away from technology.

Photo via Tyler Branch.

I've got my eye on Bryce Canyon National Park in Utah as a possibility. The landscapes there are so breathtaking, so bracing. 

Don't you think the place practically looks ethereal, otherworldly?

Photo via Flickr.
Photo via Flickr.

I'm sure I'd fall in love with the gorgeous terrain, the long hikes, the sunrises and sunsets. And I bet a trip there would generate some great poetry, too.

Have you traveled anywhere exciting lately? Do you have any summer trips planned?

Permission to Play in Yoga Class

Photo via Pinterest.

Today, I grant you permission to play in yoga class. Throw your head back. Laugh at the ridiculousness that happens when you have fifteen yogis trying to put their feet behind their heads. Or people farting during a backbend. Or that dude next to you snoring in savasana.

Your teacher may not have told you, but yoga allows you this freedom.

Photo via Rummey Bears.

Try moving through your asana practice today with childlike wonder at how beautiful and capable your body is.

If you start to feel frustrated or tired, imagine you've just heard a hilarious joke. Breathe into the deepest parts of your lungs.


Photo via Pinterest.

It was George Bernard Shaw who said, "We don't stop playing because we grow old;
we grow old because we stop playing."


I think he was right.
Photo via Rummey Bears.

You're free to have fun during yoga class. Smile. Do the pose with your body, not your clenched jaw.

Give yourself permission to play, fall, to get back up again, to act silly, to encourage other yogis. Be a kid for an hour or two. You deserve it.

Photo via Pinterest.

Karma Yoga: The Yoga of Selfless Giving


Like yoga postures, getting in the habit of selfless service takes practice.

As a way to inspire all of you beautiful readers, I started the Karma Yoga series a while back. My hope is to share stories of studios, teachers, students, organizations and projects that are actively cultivating compassion and love in the world.


Do you have a story you'd like to share with readers of Alive in the Fire? Are you practicing karma yoga, or know of someone who is?

By telling these stories, I hope it will motivate you to extend your yogic practice and take it with you into the world. The series is also a way for me to actively cultivate compassion within the Alive in the Fire community, and remind us all of the importance of giving back to those in need.


Photo via Pinterest.

With your heart open and mind calm, you can share what you have learned on the mat. You are liberated to give freely to friends and strangers, to love and respect others. To change the world.


If you'd like to be involved in the series, please shoot me an email at aliveinthefire at gmail dot com. I look forward to hearing from you! XO

Cultivation, Meditation, Grounding

Photo via Julie Harmsen on Flickr.

Pause today. Take a look at your life, your state of being. 

Approach your mat with an intention to generate peace, love, kindness.

Photo via Prancing Leopard on Flickr.

Allow your breath to move you farther from the routines of the mind.

Photo via Flickr.

Be open to what you are experiencing in this moment. At the end of class, meditate for a few minutes quietly on your own. Take your hands in wisdom mudra, thumbs touching index fingers. Invite the wisdom of the universe in.

Listen to what your higher self has to say. Perhaps there is one thing in your life you're cultivating which you want to bring into focus. Perhaps there are three things in your life that you are choosing to let go of. Concentrate on these.

Feel the breath moving effortlessly through you.

Open your eyes slowly, and awaken yourself to life off the mat. Carry the meditation with you throughout your day.

Real Men Do Yoga: Matt Cooke

All photos courtesy of Matt Cooke.

It's been a while since I brought you a story in the Real Men Do Yoga series. I couldn't be more thrilled to share this guest post from yogi Matt Cooke today. His is an inspiring story about taking charge of your life and making great things happen. Thanks, Matt, for sharing!



One of my favorite questions to ask myself is: What would I pay to do? I come alive when I share yoga with others, and when I talk about optimizing life and creativity with others!…So I’m following my bliss.

Starting college as a BFA in Musical Theater, I quickly gained a lead role as a freshman, being Berger, in Hair: the Musical.  After receiving this huge ego boost, I then got hit with a flurry of reality checks in class, not getting cast the following semester.  I was producing crappy work that I knew was life-less….not filled with ME.  I realized I couldn't just wait around expecting my “muse” to come when I was “struck by inspiration.”
I was dumbfounded as to what I could do to be filled up again as an artist, and quickly fell into anxiety and depression that can commonly accompany being an artist.  I quickly realized that I couldn't find it through food, or alcohol or sex…all in fact, just distracted from my dharma, my work. I needed to inspire myself, rather than rely on outside sources for inspiration. After my sophomore year, I found Brian Johnson, and his work with Philosophersnotes and Entheos.  His “notes” gave me do-able steps to implement into my life, realizing I create my reality, and life circumstances!



He gave me the balls to think: “Wait!  You mean, my creativity and happiness are in my control?…I can actively make myself a stronger and productive artist, while being ecstatic about my work and gut feelings?…and fall on my face…and get back up, confidently?”…The answer was a resounding “Hell yes!

Next question: How could I systematically create the reality I wanted, by applying small things to my life, with hard work, discipline, and playfulness?



Mastery of anything comes from showing up to do the art/work on the business/the yoga regiment with “Blissipline” (Bliss/Discipline), every morning, after waking.  I immediately began letting these small changes happen, until they became habitual patterns of daily life! This included giving gratitude, meditation, running/cycling, eating amazing food that nourishes my body…and yoga…all before 10am!



After 16 years of baseball and weight lifting wreaked havoc on my knees and joints, I couldn’t even touch my shins at 21 years old.   Yoga gave me back my body and kinesthetic awareness.  I call it “getting in my body”, because I really feel in my skin, tapped into every feeling inch of my body, rather than just using my body as a vehicle for my head. 

Yoga could be a catalyst for creativity and incubating new ideas, and knowing that once I embody my Highest Self, the work can just flood forth through my mind to pen, clay, or machinery, and body. One of the first things I did after beginning my “Blissiplines” was end a 3-year relationship that wasn't life giving or supporting my growth, or hers.  I began to realize that I had a choice in literally every facet of my life, including the way I interpreted any situation in life.  I created a small group of friends/loved ones, (including my highest self) that empowered me, and that I could do the same for.



I then added a second major of Health Promotion/Wellness with an emphasis in Wellness Coaching, and attended the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health, in Massachusetts for a month-long 200 hour YTT immersion, a life-altering experience.  Now, after creating a Yoga and Meditation Club on my campus, I’ll be heading to Vancouver, BC in May to begin an internship for My Yoga Online! Jai five!

Ready to Rock your Highest Self?

Create.

Go.

Sincerely,
Matt

To connect with Matt on social media, check out Creative Warrior Yoga or Creative Warrior Yoga on Facebook. Here's Matt on Twitter and on YouTube.