Spread Some Cheer

Oh, to be home for the holidays. Photo via Andrew and Carissa.

Let's balance out that last post with some lovely images from around the Web that will get you smiling. Here's hoping your morning has been full of festivity, exquisite skies, and snowy adventures! 

A view of last night's eclipse. Photo via Pacing the Panic Room.

Winter wonderland! Photos via Krisatomic

Headspin, Tailspin, Plunge: A Holiday Check-In

You can only hide from your own yoga practice for so long. Photo via DearDear.

I have to say, it's been one heck of a holiday season so far! Busy busy busy bees. I buzz around from work to home, from the Midwest to the Caribbean, from wake to sleep.


All this travel, eating out, and getting caught with a yucky cough has affected my Bikram practice. Tonight I found myself in the Torture Chamber feeling a little chubbier and a lot tanner than usual, hoping that class would go smoother than Sunday's.


I lucked out: my body decided to work together with me, so instead of chasing my breath around the room I was able to connect with it, utilize my nostrils, and complete every posture.


A week away from Bikram and you might start to feel like this. Photo via Etsy's Tumblr.

I felt great, especially considering after the last two classes I seriously thought I'd go a month before completing every asana again. While I've felt incredible and super-energized after classes since I returned from Puerto Rico, I must admit that those 90-minute meditations have been hard


I often find myself out of breath, overwhelmed. I set up in the last row by the beginners, wondering where has my Bikram yoga gone?


I think the worst part about playing catch up is that I seem to have lost the Bengal Tiger strength and bulldog determination part of the yoga. I get frustrated by the little things, and quickly. I get distracted easily.


I find my eyes wandering around the room, comparing myself to other yogis. I tell myself I need to push harder, be better, be able to execute the postures like I did a month ago instead of listening to my body today.


I slip and slide, overindulge, feel discouraged.


At work, I let the little mistakes I make get to me, I let them be reasons to dislike my own Self. At home, I can feel distant when I don't communicate about my needs or exhausted when I over-work. Then when I take a day off, I feel guilty.


Welcome to the holidays, right?


Photos via A Desert Fete. 


Do you ever get the sense that this is a time of year where your expectations are highest and your ability to meet them is at an all-time low? I know I'm exaggerating here, but I just want to make the point that despite the eggnog lattes and silver bows, December can be a rough month -- emotionally, financially, physically. For singles and couples, individuals and families. 


We're all trying to do so much, and if we're not practicing our yoga, it's hard to do anything at all.


It's easy to over-eat, over-spend, and over-plan all the wintery celebrations and decorations.


Just think: all those holiday parties with their mini wieners and meatballs, their shrimp dip and crackers, their champagne punch! Speaking from experience here. And it was delicious, let me tell you! :)


Alright, so I do think that celebrating with special food and drink and super awesome company is a must of the holiday season. But if that celebrating really leaves you feeling empty or lonely or overweight, I highly recommend you try to make up for it in the Hot Room.


Eat, drink, be merry, and then do your yoga! Commit to the 90 minutes. Sit down when you need a break.


Find the community at your studio, too, and enjoy it. Meet people; chat in the locker rooms; get together (for healthy food and drink) after class! When you can truly connect to other dedicated Bikram yogis around you, the experience of the postures becomes different -- fuller, more meaningful, more well-rounded. You find yourself with someone to talk to about the ways the yoga applies to life outside the hot box, and sharing those reflections can change your life (and your practice).


Keep an eye on your yoga, or it might sneak away from you.

Don't get me wrong: I don't want this post to imply that I'm suffering this month, or even this holiday season. I'm simply attuned to those who are, and the moments which sometimes make December and January feel like a mudslide. 

I'm a very happy yogi right now. I've been so, so lucky and incredibly blessed with the stuff I have going on. I could not be more surrounded by loving people, either. 

Even in the Hot Room, a place that's felt distant lately, I have a lot to be grateful for. My Standing Bow has improved a ton, probably in part because I spent all my free moments in Puerto Rico taking photos of that posture on the beach. :) I'm also learning to enjoy the first set of postures, and really treat it like a warm-up instead of a race to the finish line. I'm learning what it means to slow down so that I can keep doing the yoga at a steady pace rather than needing a break and missing out on postures.

I'm realizing more and more that without the yoga, I can't quite handle it all. I'm learning what I need to do to make Bikram a priority, even when the holidays bring madness. And I'm hoping that you're doing the same. 

Here's to keeping Christmas week and New Year's stress-free, yoga-filled, and rich with love, light and happiness!

Find your bliss. And hold on to it with all you've got. 

Namaste,
Rachel

And once you've done your yoga, relax! That's what I plan to do soon as I'm home in CA.

Real Men Do Yoga: Hans Park


Time for our next yogi in the Real Men Do Yoga Series!

I'd like to introduce you to Hans Park, who attends class at Bikram Yoga Metrotown in Vancouver, British Columbia. You can find him on Flickr and Twitter. This is his story.

Now that's some core strength. I can only imagine Hans' handstands!

I've been practicing Bikram yoga for about 25 hours (it makes me laugh to describe it way).  In all seriousness, though, I've been practicing for six weeks and have completed about 17 classes.  I had known about the yoga for quite some time but decided to take advantage of a sale at a Bikram studio close to where I live.  


$20 for 15 classes within 30 days? Too good of a deal to pass up.  


I figured there would be one of three outcomes: 1) I figure out I don't really like the yoga, 2) I really like it and want to continue, or 3) I fall over after attempting to maintain a posture and hilarity would ensue.  


I found the result was a combination of #2 and #3.  I really enjoy Bikram and I do fall over attempting to maintain some of the postures... but there is no hilarity, just a lot of concentration and sweating, of course.  I ended up using up all of the classes within the 30 day limit.  Before the end of my trial the studio had a one day sale so I took advantage of this and bought a 25 class package at 50% off the regular price everything kind of fell into place! 

The heat itself doesn't bother me as I've spent quite a bit of time working in hot countries in Asia and Africa.  At first I found it challenging to get through each class but now I’m finding the challenge is getting through each posture.  


That being said, I see improvements with each class.  I can't say I feel any less manly doing this and often get told by people that they are surprised to hear that I go to classes regularly.  


I noticed a marked improvement in certain exercises at the gym and I sleep better, and likely have found other benefits I haven’t noticed yet.  My mom also mentioned that my complexion was better too (Thanks Mom, haha!).  Last but not least, I enjoy hearing about the different experiences the other people in class have and also learning about the different backgrounds the teachers come from.

Hans


Sounds like Hans will be hitting the heat for a while! As a thank you for his submission, Alive in the Fire will be offering Hans the chance to choose a prize from several awesome Etsy sellers. If you submit, you can win a tasty treat, lovely soap, or other surprise too!


Want to read more about men who aren't afraid of the Torture Chamber? Check out Joe's story or how you can submit your own.


Photo via Dudes Doing Yoga.

How to Make a Happy Yogi: Christmas Gift Ideas for Your Awkward Friends & Downward Dogs

Time to glow. Photo via Scout and Catalogue.

 
All tangled? Simple gift ideas here. Photo via Wikstenmade.
Still shopping?

Here are some quick ideas for what to get your yogi friends, and your not-yet-yogi friends who need converting.


And a holiday reminder to all: it's about the love, not the cash you spend!
  • A Pranayama breathing app. Ever wished you could take a moment to breathe and not freak out? Well, here you are. Yoga breathing techniques on-the-go. Recently reviewed over at Daily Cup of Yoga.

  • Red Leaf bar soap for guys. This Etsy shop has the best masculine suds around. Packaging comes in holiday colors, too!
  • For those first-row kind of sexy Bikram girls you know: a ruffle bra from Need Supply Co! This looks super comfy, too.
Photo via Couture Boudoir.
  •  A sexy boudoir session from a local Chicago photographer like Couture BoudoirLaura Meyer or Kara Schultz. Give your man some sexy photos as a surprise!
  • Grey bootie shoes from Osborn that make a comfortable and cozy alternative to winter boots.
  • A beautiful Le Creuset french oven pan for the foodies you love (and love to invite over for potlucks!) via Cookware.
  • A yoga music CD.
  • A yoga shirt for your puppy, and a visit to this dog-friendly studio / cafe. I wasn't kidding about the gift ideas for your downward dogs thing! :)
  • A gift certificate to your favorite studio so you and your friends can yoga together.
  • Some VitaCoco, Ultima Replenisher and Kashi bars for a pre- or post-workout snack that replenishes and rehydrates.

What yogi gifts are on your wish list this year?
Snuggle up out there! Photo via Scout and Catalogue.

Practice, Not Perfect Execution

Photos via Brandy Lyn Winfield, an incredible yogini who won the 2010 Bishnu Charan Ghosh Cup and who teaches at Bikram Yoga Summerlin in Las Vegas, NV.

How many times does a Yoga Asana Championship-winning yogi practice a posture before taking home that trophy?

You'll never know. They lost count.

Or better yet, they never counted to begin with. Because it wasn't about the number of times they got it right. It was about trying again. Doing the best they could. Letting go of the rest.

Taking flight.

I recently read a lovely blog post by Bikram yogi Hannah over at Hannah Just Breathe about how there is always something we can learn from our practice. Even if we mess up and eat right before class, sitting in savasana can teach us to prepare better next time. Even if we've been to Teacher Training and back, we have more to learn from our instructors and the yogis around us about how to focus, how to let go, how to have fun.

Whether it's our first class or our 100th in a challenge, we are practicing strength and getting better by letting go of expectations instead of demanding perfection of ourselves.

As Hannah's teacher said, "Each time you come, each time you practice, you learn something new, about your body or yourself or the yoga.  It is the practice that’s important, not the perfect execution.”

Next time you get overwhelmed by your own mistakes, or frustrated by your yoga performance, I challenge you to reconsider the way you define your practice. Are you at the studio to experience the yoga and to detox your body and mind, or to impress your fellow yogis by executing the posture perfectly?

Will you fix your hair and shorts and wipe sweat so you look OK, or let it go and get down to business?

Who are you making eye contact with in the mirror -- your neighbor or your own steady gaze?

Do you bring home pride, or humility after class?

I was so proud of Joanna over at Lock the Knee when I read her recent post about how well she took disappointment when competing in regional yoga championships did not go exactly as planned. Basically, she didn't hit her Standing Bow the way she had been hoping to, and practicing for, but that didn't mean she was about to give up. And in case you were wondering, she's got a killer Standing Bow:
A true Bikram yogi and teacher. I mean, this lady's got it goin' on.

Instead of slinking off-stage, Juliana took her time completing the rest of the postures she had been practicing (as she says, "because at this point I didn't really care about the clock and I was still on stage in front of a whole ton of people.  I might as well do something nice before hanging up my leotard until next year!").

Sarcasm aside, instead of freaking out or getting upset, J was able to laugh off what didn't go as well as she hoped it would -- and she even posted about it on her blog in one of the most hilarious throwbacks to the awesome web comic Hyperbole and a Half I've ever read. She had fun, she did some great yoga, and she took home no regrets -- she practiced being calm and carrying on! -- and for that, The Dancing J should be super proud.

As should Hannah, her wise instructor, and the novice yogi who he counseled about coming to class on and empty stomach.

With these inspiring Bikram yogis in mind, I challenge you to reconsider your habits at the studio, and your true motives for engaging in this practice called yoga.

Next time you find yourself whining at yourself in the mirror about how you didn't achieve that last inch of depth in Half Moon, or how you didn't get your chin to shoulder in Standing Bow before falling out, shut your brain up.

Relax.

Bikram yoga is about practice, not perfect execution.

I love how delicate her toes are in this picture. So beautiful! You can believe it took some practice to get to this perfect execution.

Love in the Everyday

Photo via Paolo Zerbini.
A reader recently posted about how she enjoys the fact that my blog embraces the everyday. She said she can appreciate it even though she's not a yogi because I post about simple, real things in my life.


I was super honored, excited and inspired by that idea.


Sometimes I am in awe of the little wonderful moments we encounter on days that might outwardly seem dull.


We catch the light in the kitchen illuminating the steam from beneath a pot on the stove.


Photo via Age Old Tree.

We do our yoga again, and are transformed by it. Again.

Photo via Jose Villa.

We share a kiss.

Photo via OnceWed.

We discover a puppy in a tuxedo.

The unusual within the everyday makes me smile. You?

Real Men Do Yoga: Joseph Barilla

Photo by my talented friend Emily.

Remember a long, long time ago when I mentioned an upcoming series about guys who rock their yoga practice? The time has come for our first post! I'm excited to introduce our first yogi in the Real Men Do Yoga series: Joseph Barilla.

Joe is a Bikram yogi who started his practice at the studio in Carle Place, NY and who now attends classes at Rockville Centre, NY. You can find him on Facebook here. This is his story.

Quite a tall Triangle Pose!

I have been practicing Bikram yoga on and off for four years. It is the first yoga I tried and I was immediately hooked on the heat, the challenge, and the unique perspective on life that the yoga provides. My favorite postures are Standing Bow Pose and Camel Pose.

I never felt it was an issue to do yoga as a man. I just did it. Liked it. Did it more. Hated it for making me feel stupid or terrible sometimes. Did it more. Liked it more for making me feel terrible, realizing I had stuff to clean up inside my body and in my life as well. 

I don't feel any more or less manly practicing yoga. To all the guys who mock the yoga dudes, I say, "I will out-dance and out-live you!"

I do some of the poses at home, but its not the same thing. Besides, I get a kick out of watching people that are about to pass out.  I will admit, though, I usually have that look on my face. Working on it. Have been for four years. I feel as if I just started yesterday.

I will attend the training soon. It's been on my mind for a couple of years now. I'm not sure how I feel about Bikram's rule about not wearing green at the training because it's his least favorite color. (It happens to be my favorite color.) But...I can deal, I suppose. Nine weeks of doing Bikram yoga twice a day will most likely make me focus on other things, like trying to stay alive. ;)

I'm at a transition phase of my life. I wish, I pray, I yell, I dream about attending the training in California. I'm not really sure of anything right now and it's a little scary not knowing what my future will look like. But the training is something I would like to attend within the next year. 

Namaste,
Joseph

Be a man. Do yoga. And then submit to Alive in the Fire about it. Photo by Steven Brahms.

Guys, submit your yoga story to be part of the series! Whether you do Bikram or any other style, I'd love to hear from you. Email aliveinthefire @ gmail [dot] com today!

Exciting note: I'm not positive yet, but I'm hoping to do special giveaways for the guys who submit, so get yours in early. :)

Middle of the Week Laughter

My December in a nutshell, pretty much! Comic fromIndexed.

Ever heard of Indexed? It's a wonderfully silly blog with the best Venn diagrams around. This one was perfect for this December.


Thanks, Puerto Rico, for your biobays. And thanks, Evanston, for all your twinkly lights!


Oh, I love the holidays!


Here are a few other recent faves from the comic. They are really quite clever, and some super poignant, too!


Isn't this amazingly true? Comic from Indexed.

This is why I enjoy those photos that show the everyday. Comic from Indexed.
True in the Hot Room, true in life. Comic from Indexed.

Do you read any funnies? (I'm also a huge fan of XKCD and Texts from Last Night. If you need a laugh, stop over at either!)


 Comics from Texts from Last Night.


Oh, and just because I hope it will make you smile... a cupcake from last night. :) Thanks Linds, for our awesome gluten-free bakery date at Rose's! Yum. Happy Wednesday, all!


Back to the Windy City

It's blizzardy here in Chicago, but I'm glad to be back.

I made it home! It is wonderful to be back to Evanston even will all the crazy weather. I actually marveled at the way I felt excited to see the snowflakes this morning :)

From the sunny beaches to freezing weather, I've been having a blast documenting my Standing Bow since Thanksgiving. It's getting there... :)

On the beach, baby. See that little island out there? I swam to it.

Sunset in Minnesota.

Nothing beats yoga on the beach but I can't wait to hit the Hot Room soon. Coming up, I'll be posting about several outstanding studios, including the one in Minneapolis I visited over Thanksgiving and the one in Granite Bay, CA where I first practiced Bikram with my mom.


Free Week at Yoga in Oak Park, Chicago

Photo via RisePro on Flickr.

"I will be calmly active, actively calm. I am a prince of peace, sitting on the throne of poise, directing the kingdom of my activity." 
-Paramahansa Yogananda

When I heard that my yogi friend/teacher Nancy was going to be opening a studio in the Chicago area, I smiled. But then my heart jumped a bit: wait, this meant she wouldn't be around to teach in Evanston!

Although we miss you lots at BYE, Nancy, we are so, so proud of you and excited for your amazing opening of 105 Yoga studio in Oak Park. 

Nancy's approach to yoga is a lot like Paramahansa Yogananda's idea of being "actively calm." In her classes, you feel incredibly energized and yet your mind is peaceful and clear, as though you were practicing on the beach at sunrise. Her approach to running the studio is equally as balanced: she offers a wide variety of classes every day, is featuring a Grand Opening this weekend, and will continue to treat yogis throughout the month of December.

Photo via Lululemon on Flickr.

To celebrate the holidays, 105 Yoga is offering incredible rewards to all yogis each time they practice December. For every class, you are entered in a drawing to win:
  • Grand prize: 20 Class Pack and a yoga mat
  • 1st place prize: 10 Class Pack
  • 2nd place prize: 1 hour massage
  • 3rd place prize: yoga mat
Talk about a way to motivate yourself to keep up with your Bikram! If you're a yogi in Chicago, consider zipping over to 105 Yoga in Oak Park to try out the studio. Class changes coming up include:
Fri, Dec 24: classes only at 9am & 12pm
Sat, Dec 25: class only at 12pm
Fri, Dec 31: classes only at 9am & 12pm
Sat, Jan 1: class only at 12pm

Photo via Lululemon on Flickr.

Here at Alive in the Fire, local readers can win a 
FREE WEEK PASS to 105 Yoga in Chicago

To enter, simply:
  • Leave a comment below with your favorite yoga posture.
  • Add 105 Yoga on Twitter and Facebook.
  • Post a Facebook comment on the 105 Yoga page (if you add more than one, you'll be entered twice to win!).
  • Note: open to Chicago residents only.
Photo via Lululemon on Flickr.

From the Island: Eco-Friendly Hand-Sewn Goods


Next up in the Winter Extravaganza is NuovoVerde from Etsy. Her shop features eco-friendly hand-sewn goods.

I love Ingrid's earthy, colorful style for her headbands, bags, clutches, business card holders/ coin purses, and hair accessories.

She is offering one lucky reader a practical and beautifully-handcrafted mini purse made with organic cotton canvas. As she says, it's a hip and modern way to carry your money or credit cards! The purse is hand-painted and made with low impact inks, so it's super green.

This is your last chance to win a handmade item from Puerto Rico, so enter now!


More from Ingrid about her shop:
NuovoVerde means "The New Green" in English. This refers to the main goal of the company: to focus on fusing ethics and aesthetics. Garments are unique or limited-edition pieces, crafted via a combination of reclaimed, recycled and organic materials mostly by me, Ingrid Iglesias in Puerto Rico (Caribbean Islands). 

Educated as an artist but with a continuous interest in all design and art themes, I've being looking forward in my creative ventures and also responding to my conscious awareness of the environment.

I have experimented with lots of materials and techniques and this shop is a reflection of that. NuovoVerde features a variety of accessories, paper goods and other cool stuff inspired by art, good design and sustainability. We're hoping to expand soon, so keep an eye out for new products in the near future!

As Ingrid says, all items in her shop are handmade, hand-painted and embellished with much love in her little studio. All pieces are unique, one-of-a-kind and are designed to express individual personalities. Maybe yours? 

Advice on what to do in Puerto Rico:
In Puerto Rico, you can't miss the beaches. Excellent beaches can be found almost all around the island, but the best for my "needs" are Gilligan's Island in Guanica (south side of the island) and Flamenco Beach on Culebra Island (one of the municipalities at the east of the island). This beach has been classified as one of the 14th best beaches in the world. 

Also, be sure to visit El Yunque rainforest, nominated as one of the seven marvels of the modern world, and finally, the walled city of Old San Juan, part of the UNESCO World Heritage list. This is a very important spot for culture, history, good food, music, and a lot of fun!

To win the coin purse, please:
  • Leave a comment below with your favorite item from NuovoVerde's Etsy shop.
  • Leave feedback and favorite the Etsy shop.
  • Add NuovoVerde on Twitter and Facebook.
  • Utilize the 15% discount in the store through January 15 by entering ALIVE12 as a coupon code when you check out.

Finally, we've got a winner for the BijouxHibou necklace! Congrats to MommyYogini. Please contact me with your email and I'll connect you with Wandie so she can mail it to you.

Longing for Home

Photo via CoolHunting.

As beautiful as this Puerto Rico trip has been, there's a big part of me that can't wait to get home. I want to be in my PJs as much as I want, and snooze in my comfy bed.

Photo via Andrea Dicenzo.

I can't wait to be in the kitchen, cooking up some tasty, healthy homemade meals.

Photo via Andrew + Carissa.

With lots of vegetables.


And I could really use a long, hot bath...

I will miss the warm temperatures, pina coladas and spa time, but it will be lovely to get home to Evanston. What do you miss when you travel?

From the Island: Handcrafted Clay Necklaces


Next up in the featured Puerto Rican Etsy sellers is BijouxHibouAt this shop, you can find beautiful artisan necklaces and tiles in a style described as "Raku meets tie dye."

One lucky Alive in the Fire reader will win this mango-inspired necklace.

Beautiful, right?

The pendant measures 1 1/2" in diameter and it comes with a 26" rust colored satin cord with sliding knots so you can easily adjust the length.

Wandie's description of her shop:
Painter, sculptor, animal lover, dreamer, island girl at heart.  I'm an artist + illustrator from the beautiful island of Puerto Rico and I create small, skillfully wrought, abstract pieces of art in clay. I created my shop, Bijoux Hibou, pronounced bee-zhoo ibu, which is French for Jewel Owl, as an oasis I could escape to and let my imagination and love for color run wild.

My tile pendants are created to look like natural and rustic pieces of pottery. The color and texture creates personality to bring out the best in each piece. I like to think of them as abstract pieces of art on clay. I enjoy creating a variety of color combinations and design elements that evoke emotion, self -expression and inspiration.


On enjoying the outdoors:
I love horseback riding and I took Hunter/Jumper lessons in Texas for two years and I'm a mountain biker.  Since I'm active I don't wear alot of fine jewelry but when I do, I like to wear one of my pendants while tackling some single-track on my mountain bike.


To win the necklace, please leave a comment below and check out BijouxHibou's shop on Etsy.

Also, BijouxHibou is offering a 15% off deal on all orders by Alive in the Fire readers until 12/17. Simply enter the coupon code BHSURF15 when checking out. Enjoy!


Finally, we've got a winner for the lovely silk scarf by SilkMari! Congrats to Ms. Copsey. Email me so we can coordinate getting the scarf to you.


Practicing with Pain

Photo via cognitive.distortion on Flickr.

Recently I received an email from a reader who was wondering about how to do Bikram yoga while dealing with back and neck pain. Since I can totally relate, I thought I'd share a little post about recommendations from some of my teachers, plus a bit from The Boss himself!

Here are some basic tips to keep in mind:
  • Always speak with a teacher in person for the best advice. Don't be scared to ask; instructors are there to help! Be specific about your pain and be honest about prior injury, too.
  • Only practice with a certified Bikram instructor and always consult your doctor if you are unsure whether you should be practicing.
  • Be careful, move slowly, and stop if you experience sharp pain. Don't hurt yourself by going too far just because you see yogis around you advancing in the posture.
  • The right way is the hard way!
  • Lengthen the spine before bending it.
  • Follow the dialogue! Listen for steps and be sure to do them in the right order. For example, in Padahastasana you bring your upper body to the thighs before you lock the knees. In Separate Leg Stretching, you empty the stomach and suck it in before you stretch.
 Photo via Prana.

From Stuart, studio director at Bikram Yoga Evanston:
Try the right way and do the best you can.  It may be uncomfortable and that's OK. 

From Nancy at 105 Yoga in Oak Park, Chicago:
It's hard to assess pain for a person I haven't seen or talked to. Your best bet is to talk to your teacher in person and tell them exactly where you feel pain.

Sometimes you get a stiff neck from sleeping wrong or tweaking it somehow, in which case, Pranayama is awesome.  It will hurt and be uncomfortable but it should feel better after the breathing and definitely after class.  If this is something that is bothering you every time you do Pranayama, you might be doing it wrong.  If you've just started practicing, you might not be used to moving your head and neck that way.  If you've been practicing for a while, you might be doing it wrong. 
With all of the above said, if it's painful, definitely back off a bit.  But I would really encourage you to speak with your teachers about any pain and in order to make sure you're doing postures the right way.
Photo via Good Luck Cleo on Flickr.

From Lindsay at Bikram Yoga Evanston
who's also a massage therapist and owner of Omai Bodyworks:
What to do when you're experiencing discomfort depends on the quality of pain, and if you have any previous injuries. If you have some sort of osteo-arthritis or disk degeneration I would say to only go back in backbends and Pranayama to the point of pain (or keep your head upright if you can't move it backwards at all). 

If there's no previous stuff going on, my recommendation would be to try to focus on lengthening up before tilting the head back in Pranayama. A lot of people just drop the head back, which crunches the vertebrae, and it's important to never do that (in any posture). It is all about lengthening first, and then moving. 

Also, make sure the shoulders are relaxed away from the ears, as hunching the shoulders puts a lot of undue stress on the neck/shoulder/upper back region. If you are able to move the head backwards, even a little bit, you should focus on really squeezing the elbows together in front of the body (to increase the space between her shoulderblades on the backside of the body). 

Especially when you first start doing the yoga, the body hurts as it is opening and adjusting to the postures. The body will follow the path of least resistance, and a lot of these movements are completely foreign to a lot of people, so it can be painful in the beginning... The body will fight initially. But the right way is the hard way :)

Photo via Prana.

From Bikram Choudhury and the Bikram Yoga site:

Beginning with Half Moon, my series of exercises is designed to make your shocked and shriveled spine work to both sides, to the back, and then to the front. Only by exercising in all directions can your spine be healthy; and only with a healthy spine can you have a healthy nervous system.


If your chronic problem is something such as sciatic pain, lumbago, sore back muscles, whiplash, vertebrae out of line, shoulder trouble, radiating pains down the arms, tension headaches, swayback, spinal curvature, pinched nerves, or "something not quite right that the doctor said I ought to watch," stop watching. Act! Get to work on these exercises. Even those who have had spinal surgery should get to work--with their doctor's okay and a qualified teacher who can lead them in my particular series of exercises.

People with slipped disc are often in such pain that Yoga seems further torture. However, in numerous slipped disc cases, determined yoga can save the day. So endure the pain. But please note that those with slipped disc should also work under the supervision of a qualified instructor using my exact series of exercises and the safety rules laid down in the dialogue, in my book, and on my website.


Photo via Thanaruth Phomveha on Flickr.

Please follow the instructions carefully when you are doing forward bends. For example, in the half moon (Padahastasana series), the instructions are to bring your torso on your thighs, chest to the knees, no light space anywhere between the torso and the thighs. If you try to straighten your legs without having this first part accomplished, you can create pain in your lower back. Also keep in mind the instruction "360 degrees stretching." What that means is to make the stretch even throughout the whole back side of the body.

You also want to follow these guidelines in separate leg stretching. Bikram says, "Suck in your stomach and bend your upper body down from your lower spine  towards the floor." It is difficult to suck in your stomach unless you exhale, so make sure to exhale as you fold forward. When you suck in your stomach, it supports the whole pelvis to roll forwards with the rest of your spine--this eliminates strain in the lower back.

Working carefully, mindfully, allowing your breath to flow with your movement will help you to gradually deepen your experience of the postures.

Photo by Alice Beasley via A Cup of Jo.
If you have more questions or comments, please include them below. Namaste!

Coqui: Paradise Reverie

Photo via DaydreamLily.


Paradise Reverie
a thing too perfect to be remembered:
sudden croak of the coqui


invisible and concealed
from far or from very close

in the night it is dangerous to listen     at a distance
in the night, listening becomes

living,      coming to assure me     are the sounds of 
nature speaking its name     co     qui


I was healed
free of situations
in the faraway
co     qui       co     qui  co     qui

voices stirring the sky
a strange happiness    suddenly there


sound could slip through it
co qui    binding us      to this night

From the Island: Silk Scarves


Next up in the Winter Extravaganza are three lovely Etsy sellers from the island of Puerto Rico. 

First up is SilkMari, a shop where you can find gorgeous handmade and hand-dyed silk scarves by Marina. She's offering this dreamy blue scarf to one lucky reader.

Here's her description of the scarf :
The blues, greens, teals, sea-foam and aqua in this hand dyed silk scarf are the ocean color as seen from above our coastal waters. It is 8" x 54" chiffon silk and could be worn as a headband or around the neck tied in a bow for a sexy sultry look. Each scarf is signed on the lower left-hand corner.


About the shop:

Each of my silk scarves is individually hand-dyed and/or hand painted. Batik, tie-dye and silk painting are some of the techniques that I love to explore and use. Each scarf is unique by the process used, making it a one-of-a-kind work of art. I took a basic course in Batik and the rest is self-taught with experimenting.


  

On Living in Puerto Rico:
Although I was born in Puerto Rico, we moved to NYC when I was about five years old and did all my schooling there. I returned to Puerto Rico and have been involved with the Artisans Market for some time. I love the weather in Puerto Rico and all the wonderful natural wonders it has. The beaches are breathtaking, the rain forest a must see, we have warm water baths and outrageous caves. 

Recommendations for Travelers:
Definitely visiting the Old San Juan is number one on the list. It's referred to as the Fortress City because it is surrounded by huge imposing walls which were built to protect the city from invaders and pirates. From there you must go visit at least one beach. I recommend Luquillo Beach which is in the skirt of the rain forest.

To win the aqua scarf, please leave a comment below telling about your favorite time at the beach. Also please visit the shop at 
SilkMari and include in your comment which other scarf you like best.


Good luck and namaste!